I would hate being treated like a girl in a more sexist society, but I've managed to avoid the worst parts of that. Or not notice them; I can be pretty socially oblivious at times. So I'm okay with being treated like a person who is female. But on the other hand I really like it on the rare occasions when someone mistakes me for a man, so what do I know?

An answer would be nice, yes. I'm so used to trying to figure out things about my brain on my own, but I have noticed recently that talking about it is useful. Thanks so much for the sympathy, and the same back.