Yuletide recs (part 2)
Dec. 29th, 2025 10:38 amPossibly in Michigan
The Secret History
The Raven Tower
Impromptu/19th Century RPF
The Dispossessed
The Long Walk -Stephen King
Waking the Moon
Rope
Since we met in 1977, MyGuy has always eaten the spongy white stuff which dwells between an orange and its skin (whether he picks it off the whole peeled orange or nibbles it away from the cut-open peel).
Yesterday I tried it. It's delicious! Michigan State University claims it also has as much vitamin C as the fruit.
What else am I missing?
Kind of surprised that so many days have passed and it feels like not much has happened.
Christmas Eve went well, it’s always a bit stressful being a hostess but I love my family and with just my side it was less stressful. Brother-in-law John came! He hasn’t in ages! I think he liked what I got him,though he quipped “Too late” on the “introverts excuse wheel” I got him, heh. Hey! It’s for avoiding other people’s social engagements, not mine!
It’s funny the subtle differences in people’s holiday traditions and how one person’s perfect gathering can be torture for another person. Just… feeling philosophical about it. For instance, all of the combo gifts for Marie and Brian I had Brian open, because I know he had fewer gifts than Marie did. For our niece and nephew it’s the opposite… the niece has the most presents and gets to open all the combo gifts because the nephew wants her to be spoiled. I think Marie agrees with me giving more presents to Brian, she’d feel bad if she got more than him. Anyway… there’s a lot of angst involved in gift giving. In our family it always felt a bit like a test; one had to give the best gift to prove you love the other person. It’s odd.
Anyway, I felt I did a good job as gift buyer this year; though I feel since I did most of the shopping the husband (while grateful) missed out on some of the joy of seeing people open the gifts as he hadn’t picked so many out.
Marie and Liz liked the watercolor kits I got them, and Marie was super touched by the Rotring pen (yay!) and the Emperor Tamarin stuffed animal. (I wasn’t sure if she’d be thrilled… but she was! Yay! Major win as a gift giver!)
Jennifer seemed really out of her shell this time, it was lovely. We talked a lot and I think she liked what I got her too. So happy to see her so healthy! (and cute, she had this amazing pink outfit!)
Christmas Day we went by the husband’s niece and nephew and ate too much, heh. His brother Frankie in New York got everyone photo prints… and I was touched, everyone got a group picture of the family but me, I got a big picture of me at the Star Trek set in May, it was my “Getting killed by the rock monster before the first commercial break” pose, hee. Very funny… but it made me feel special. Thanks Frankie!
On Boxing Day the hubby and I went to the mall; there was this nutcracker tray he was interested in if it was still there, and on sale. Alas! It was gone. As was the peppermint candy bath mat I was interested in. Still, we got a few sale items (I added to my snowflake broach collection) and steps on our pedometers.
On Saturday we went to the Metroparks, which was lovely. Why don’t I go more often? It was beautiful, and relatively quiet. We saw a red tailed hawk up close when it swooped from one of the lamposts overhead to attack some small furry critter in the grass. Startling and gorgeous and I think the mousie (or whatever it was) got away, as he didn’t have anything when he returned to the tree.
Yesterday we went by my friend Jacqueline’s; she is fostering two adult cats and four adorable kittens. We had fun playing with the kittens (hubby became a climbing tree!) and loving on the momma cat and coaxing little Lydia cat out of hiding; poor dear is very shy of humans. I hope all six cats get loving homes! We also swung by Gale’s Garden Center and picked up a few more Christmas items on sale
We may have a problem. Hey, we didn’t have a Christmas night light for the upstairs bathroom! That was needed! hee.
Today I am grateful that my weight is down after all that over-eating, and the leftover population is decreased and most of all that I have the day off of work! I am looking forward to making this a fun and productive week. *knock on wood* I’ll keep y’all posted.

Reading Pleasures
by Lesley Wheeler
The scariest book Iâve read in ages, The Woman in Black by Susan Hill, stole into my to-be-read stack in some mysterious way. I donât remember buying it or receiving it as a gift, but there it was, so I popped it into my beach bag and devoured it in a single afternoon, shivering despite the sun.
Eowyn Iveyâs Black Woods, Blue Sky, on the other hand, evoked weirdness in Alaska with mesmerizing beauty.
A hybrid novel about a womanâs rage in rural New Zealand is Louise Wallaceâs Ashâworth seeking out. Also gloriously hybridâand full of writing promptsâis Heid E. Erdrichâs Verb Animate.
In poetry, I read a third of Martha Silanoâs Terminal Surreal, written while she was dying from ALS, and it was electrifying. I had to return the book, so reacquiring it is a priority! Iâm likewise in the middle of Jan Beattyâs Dragstripping, which is, as Sandra Cisneros says, âfull throttle.â
I reread Jennifer Martelliâs Psychic Party Under the Bottle Tree before an event we did together, unaware that she was dying, tooâwe lost some important poets this yearâthen went back to Martelliâs My Tarantella, about the murder of Kitty Genovese, to keep her voice in my head.
From a couple of years back but new to me: Jaswinder Bolinaâs English as a Second Language brandishes wickedly sharp humor at recent culture and politics. Finally, if a terrific and very of-the-moment eco-poetry anthology appeals, check out Attached to the Living World edited by Ann Fisher-Wirth and Laura-Gray Street and The Nature of Our Times edited by Luisa A. Igloria, Aileen Cassinetto, and David Hassler. Both will introduce you to amazing poets not yet on your radar.
